Always, trust your first gut instincts, they aren’t wrong. If you genuinely feel in your heart and soul that something is wrong, it usually is.
My instincts never failed me a lot of times, when I feel things are wrong. It always ends up hurting me, but they are never wrong.
When I met my first date, I was in 300level while he was in his finals. He had everything I ever wanted.
Everyone knew that after college, we will end up together. I also saw that future with him, he was so perfect to be true.
Well, that’s all in the past, as my instincts never go wrong. I had a feeling he was cheating on me, it was so real and I could feel it. He once introduced me to a girl in his class, my spirit never accepted her. She carried an aurora I suspected to be very bad, though I couldn’t place my hand on it.
I told him what I felt, he told me I was sick, and I don’t trust him. He said he will never cheat on me.
Well, few weeks later, I decided to go through his phone. A message popped in and I was tempted to open it.
I met the biggest shock of my life; he was having an affair with the girl he introduced me to.
I never doubted my instincts, but I trusted him and thought he will do better.
I never doubted my instincts after that hurtful experience, it is all in the past, but it was worth a lesson.